The day before Valentine's Day.

Oh her eyes, her eyes make the stars look like they're not shining
Her hair, her hair falls perfectly without her trying
She's so beautiful
And I tell her every day
Yeah I know, I know
When I compliment her
She wont believe me
And its so, its so sad.. to think she don't see what I see
~ Bruno Mars 'Just the way you are'

This song reached the top of every billboard, US, UK, Danish..
If Steven D.Levitt and Stephen J.Dubner were to write Freakonomics all over again may be they will have a chapter 'Bruno Mars & the case of vanishing Self-Love'?

The case of vanishing Self-Love
Symptoms:
Loss in appetite for creativity leading to Paralysis of Dreams, Inability to say 'No', Hyper active grudge..
Causes: Dysfunctional Families?
anyone who is older than Justin Bieber should stop blaming dysfunctional families for every issue we have in this millennium - as Anthony Robbins in his book Awaken the Giant Within asks 'Who has a functional family?'

Lets liberate our self, accept our short comings and learn to live with the fact 'I wasn't meant to be perfect. never will I be and no one is'.
Ah.. remember the word is 'Live with the fact' not 'Laze with the fact' :-)

The Day before Valentines Day
We have Mother's day, Father's Day, Valentine's Day, a Day even for Pan cakes.. how about a Me Day? (I actually googled 'Me Day' to ensure that there isn't one.)
Urban Dictionary had a definition though: A day thats all about you... relax, eat, watch TV, and be lazy. Doing the fun things you want to do.

um..but what about people like me who can't enjoy the art of doing nothing?
Lets create a custom ritual to celebrate ourself, a Self-Love ceremony.. may be the day before Valentines Day, a ValentMine's day?

How about something like leaving ourself a voice mail like Mama Gina says "I am fabulous & deserve every pleasure life has to offer"? or Buy that Ray Ban aviators we have always wanted? or sign up for a 5K Run? or may be a Swedish deep tissue massage?
lets do something that says 'Thank you, I Love you' to ourself.

Lets teach ourself to be our own very best friend. Self-Love is the greatest legacy we can pass on!

PS: 'Suddenly I See' from
I am constantly amazed by Tina Fey. And I am Tina Fey. ~ Tina Fey

Feel worthy of all the good things you have in life. If not, you will give them all away and wonder what was I thinking? Take yourself out of that sale rack! ~ Suze Orman

I have been set free. I am free to love, to worship, to trust with no fear of rejection or of being hurt. I do not hate or walk in un forgiveness.I do not fear. I am not guilty ~ Joyce Meyer